I’ve had messages get out of whack earlier than and it’s not enjoyable and really irritating. I feel there are two paths ahead for you, choose the one which’s most attention-grabbing and least painful and go away the opposite for if the primary isn’t sufficient.
- Name Apple Help – they’ve essentially the most expertise with Apple ID and parental controls and it’s very possible you might be in with a bunch of others with the identical ache. In addition they have entry to the server facet and can assist you flush issues. I do know you might want them if self-help doesn’t work, so going there first could possibly be the quickest.
- Wrangle your messages – you’ll disable it on all however the iPhone after which make some modifications to your messages account – then take a look at display time and determine to take the easier drawback to Apple or have it solved for simply the iPhone and increase again to all messages gadgets you need.
The DIY steps are wanted in some circumstances since Apple generates a novel encryption key for every machine registered and it seems in addition they overload the assorted electronic mail addresses and SMS identities that may be hooked up to 1 Messages machine.
- Take stock of all gadgets which may ever have been signed in to your Apple ID and ensure all of them are deregistered from Messages or dissociated out of your account.
- Apple doc for locating all signed-in gadgets: Examine your Apple ID machine listing to seek out the place you are signed in
- Delete all you don’t want and might’t contact – they are going to come proper again to the listing as quickly as they energy on and connect with the web – this can be a comfortable delete except you’ve misplaced the machine – then it gained’t come again once more. You would possibly lose a backup on the machine – so take into consideration iCloud backups earlier than you delete an iOS/iPadOS machine.
- Take screenshots of the Messages settings on every of your gadgets.
- Right here is the article on utilizing totally different emails and/or SMS to determine with Messages service: In case your iPhone sends textual content messages out of your electronic mail handle
- Take away gadgets – most annoying first, so Mac and iPad and go away one iPhone (the one with mobile service on your major cell quantity) energetic.
- First take away SMS forwarding: Arrange iPhone to get SMS messages on Mac and Arrange Messages on iPad
- Then signal out of messages on the Mac – Messages app settings, iMessage tab – screenshot after which signal out.
- Repeat for iPad – Settings app – go to Messages – toggle off iMessage
- On the iPhone: when you’ve got a number of emails, I would drop all of them or most of them – then set off some Display screen Time requests – be sure that they solely go to the iPhone.
For those who’re snug with issues off – let the system on the Apple facet solely ship messages to the iPhone in a single day after which take a look at earlier than including again your accounts.
I hope you don’t want all of this, but it surely’s fairly a course of when issues get janky and we don’t have entry to the server facet to know the place the messages are getting piled up for supply to you. For those who assume Apple simply must revert their determination, you’ll must go the Apple help methodology if there’s actually no further duplication of the messages and enabling iCloud sync so no less than the message will get learn as soon as throughout all gadgets.